{"id":9986,"date":"2026-07-05T09:02:16","date_gmt":"2026-07-05T09:02:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=9986"},"modified":"2026-07-05T09:02:18","modified_gmt":"2026-07-05T09:02:18","slug":"single-man-asks-married-men-their-biggest-marriage-regret-and-they-dont-disappoint-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=9986","title":{"rendered":"Single man asks married men their biggest marriage regret and they don\u2019t disappoint"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cShe\u2019s not complaining. She\u2019s giving you the roadmap on how to treat her.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marriage is a big step in a relationship. It\u2019s something that people think about from the time they can grasp the concept of relationships. When you factor that in with the high divorce rate, it makes sense that people want to make sure they\u2019re getting it right before they take the leap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Typically people ask their close inner circle&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/people-are-sharing-the-marriage-advice-that-sounded-absurd-but-is-actually-really-helpful-ex1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">relationship advice<\/a>. Leaning on people like their parents, siblings or friends who have been married to fill in the gaps of knowledge. But with the world being smaller than ever due to social media, it takes little effort to gather more collective knowledge from thousands of people from your target audience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Surprisingly, people are pretty forthcoming to strangers on the internet looking for support and help. One man who goes by the name&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kingboiza\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">King Boiza<\/a>&nbsp;decided to ask his internet advisors, \u201cmarried men what is your greatest regret about marriage? Advise the single boys. It could be about anything.\u201d They married men didn\u2019t hesitate to answer the call in the most genuinely wholesome way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gleaning collective wisdom from those more experienced than you is a common practice, but being able to do it in such a large way is relatively new. Different life experiences lead to different perspectives that can be invaluable to someone still learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The advice provided ranged from warnings to what could be seen as&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/southwest-airlines-flight-attendant-marriage-advice\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">universal truths about marriage<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYour wife becomes the words you speak upon her, I regret not speaking life and good upon her,\u201d one man shares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIn times of trouble, remember\u2026It\u2019s not you against her but the both of you, against the problem\u2026,\u201d someone writes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cListen when she speaks from the heart, once she feels unheard, she will be closed off for a long time if not forever,\u201d another advises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNot all women age gracefully with all their good looks and physique. Marry her for more reasons beyond her body and beauty. Seek a FOREVER,\u201d one commenter says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/advisor\/legal\/divorce\/divorce-statistics\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Forbes reports that 43% of first marriages end in divorce<\/a>&nbsp;with the number significantly increasing with each subsequent marriage. Finding out the regrets, struggles and triumphs of other marriages may help others feel more prepared to commit to marriage with a bit of a roadmap laid in front of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s clear from the comments under the post that marriage takes work and while some of the men admittedly misstepped, they seem eager to share with others so they avoid the same mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMy biggest regret in marriage was to cheat and I\u2019m telling you\u2026my wife was never the same\u2026so my advice is never cheat never ever,\u201d one guy confesses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/origin_cdfb1f.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWe tend to take our spouse for granted once we get married. Continue to invest your time in her. You won\u2019t regret it and she\u2019ll know that you really see her,\u201d one man shares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it wasn\u2019t only men who dropped by the comment section. Women stopped to share their appreciation for the wisdom being left for all to see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAfter reading this comment section, my faith in the institution of marriage is restored. Relationships are not perfect, but we gotta try with people who want to try,\u201d one woman writes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI don\u2019t know why I\u2019m crying\u2026I guess I never knew men like these existed\u2026Your wives must be blessed,\u201d another woman shares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you need a dose of healthy masculinity and wholesome advice for lasting partnerships, look no further than that comment section. They\u2019re saving some future couple from heartache by simply showing up to answer a stranger\u2019s question on the internet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cShe\u2019s not complaining. She\u2019s giving you the roadmap on how to treat her.\u201d Marriage is a big step in a relationship. 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