When the results came back, the woman found out that her children were half brothers. Her husband had cheated on her with the neighbor who passed away. In a strange set of circumstances, the man adopted his son. After learning the truth about her son and husband, the wife was beside herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know how I should act. I am so angry and feel so humiliated, but I love the three of them so much. I feel like I am just a tool and that my dignity was stepped upon,\u201d she wrote on the forum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To make things worse, she still loves her husband. She said that he was \u201cnever abusive\u201d and was a \u201cgood husband\u201d and a \u201cgood father.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n\u201cIt feels like I was not a mother but an idiot who was used like a babysitter for his child,\u201d the woman wrote. \u201cHow am I supposed to react? Should I tell them the truth and try to cancel the adoption? Should I divorce him? Am I right to feel like it, or am I a monster to see this child as the source of my humiliation?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
How the Internet responded<\/h2>\n\n\n\n The post received 110 comments, and the most popular urged her to ask herself the big questions. Do you want to raise both boys? Do you want to stay married? Do you feel like he will slight you again in some way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI think one question you need to consider is, Do you want to raise both boys? Setting aside whether or not your husband is involved, understand that the child is blameless and isn\u2019t responsible for his parentage. Deciding what you want to do regarding the child is important. Also note that it isn\u2019t wrong to decide that you can\u2019t handle taking care of this child. Only you know if you have the capacity to raise the child, knowing where he comes from. If you decide that you can\u2019t, it is better to not try, and end up conveying all the upset you are feeling to him.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n\u201cThe other question is, Do you want to stay married? There can be various reasons for and against divorce. Only you can decide which ones matter most to you.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nA related question is, Do you feel he will slight you again in some way? You talk about your dignity being stepped on. Is he often acting that way in many things? Was this a one-time thing? Do you think he is likely to do it again? Knowing this will help you answer the prior question.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nTrying to break down all the things you are struggling with into separate ideas may help you get some control over it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nWhere she says things stand now<\/h2>\n\n\n\n The woman\u2019s final words on her situation were that she couldn\u2019t resolve to hate her husband or the adopted child and that her husband\u2019s infidelity was the only thing that made her feel hesitant about him. Further, she is legally bound to the adopted child and couldn\u2019t leave him regardless. But sadly, even though it appears she will stay in the situation, she feels like she has no choice. \u201cI feel trapped,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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