{"id":7376,"date":"2026-04-11T05:34:36","date_gmt":"2026-04-11T05:34:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=7376"},"modified":"2026-04-11T05:34:39","modified_gmt":"2026-04-11T05:34:39","slug":"hospice-nurse-reveals-the-exact-time-people-are-most-likely-to-die-and-its-fascinating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=7376","title":{"rendered":"Hospice nurse reveals the exact time people are most likely to die and it\u2019s fascinating"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s called the \u201cletting go hour\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/death-doula-reveals-the-big-lesson-working-with-the-dying-has-taught-her-about-happiness\">Death<\/a>&nbsp;is hard to think about and harder still to talk about. Some people get<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/this-instagram-model-s-video-of-her-panic-attack-is-hard-to-watch-and-absolutely-necessary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;panic attacks<\/a>&nbsp;just imagining the inevitable end of their life. It\u2019s an extremely uncomfortable and inescapable fact of living. For some people, learning as much as they can about what it\u2019s like and how it works is the one thing that brings them a little bit of comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s where&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/hospice-nurse-shares-regrets-of-the-dying\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Julie McFadden<\/a>&nbsp;comes in. McFadden has been working as a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/hospice-nurse-shares-the-one-sign-that-someone-is-going-to-die-in-a-few-weeks-ex1\">hospice nurse<\/a>&nbsp;for nine years. She has been educating people about the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/a-dying-woman-left-a-heartwarming-note-to-her-cats-future-owner\">dying<\/a>&nbsp;process on social media for almost as long, racking up<a href=\"https:\/\/www.good.is\/marlene-engelhorn-gives-away-27-million-inheritance-ex1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;millions&nbsp;<\/a>of views with her gentle, reassuring, and highly informative FAQs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In a recent video, Hospice Nurse Julie tackles a big, scary question: What time do people usually die? And can we actually predict someone\u2019s time of death?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhen is the most common time to die? I think you might be surprised what research says,\u201d she begins the video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>McFadden says even she was surprised when she started digging into the data and research. She noted that in her own work, she hadn\u2019t really seen a trend, but after poring through studies and speaking with colleagues across the hospice industry, she was taken aback to discover a clear answer to her question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cResearch and anecdotal evidence\u2026 it does show that most people die between 2 a.m. and 5 a.m.,\u201d she says. She explains that some professionals refer to this window as the \u201cletting go hour.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other studies and experts have a slightly different take, citing the most common time as&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC2701164\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">6 a.m.\u20148 a.m.<\/a>, or even peaking at 11 a.m. But the truth remains that there is a definitive pattern of a high percentage of people passing away in the wee hours of the morning or middle of the night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cSo, why does that happen? That\u2019s where my brain went. And to me, the reason why is the most fascinating part,\u201d she explains.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a few different factors, McFadden says, that explain such a narrow death window. The first relates to the normal cycle of our body\u2019s energy and alertness. \u201cBiologically, we have a circadian rhythm\u2026 And between the hours of two and five, that is when our body\u2019s energy level is the lowest. Our temperatures drop, our blood pressure drops, and our breathing slows.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She mentions that those late-night\/early-morning hours are also typically very quiet, with little interruption or stimulation that might unwittingly keep a patient engaged with the outside world. \u201cThere\u2019s less people kind of trying to hold you there.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The dying person\u2019s personality also plays a role. McFadden says she sees over and over that some patients will wait until the entire family arrives before they \u201clet go,\u201d while others will wait until things are quiet and they\u2019re alone. More outgoing people may wait to be surrounded before they pass, while introverts may prefer to pass in&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bethcavenaugh.com\/blog\/hospice-patients-die-alone\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">solitude<\/a>. For the folks who prefer peace and quiet, those nighttime hours make a lot of sense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/11\/origin_56b349.jpg\" alt=\"death, dying, death doula, hospice, hospice nurse, mortality, aging, seniors, love, family, fear, afterlife\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In a 2022 video, McFadden discussed a patient who told people she was \u201ctired\u201d and ready to return \u201chome.\u201d The patient let her son and caregiver know that she was ready to go, and a little while after,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/health\/2022\/09\/30\/timing-of-death-can-we-choose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">she passed away&nbsp;<\/a>in her sleep. Although there is no scientific evidence that people can consciously choose the moment they die, there are several psychological and environmental factors, besides the terminal illness, that make someone more likely to pass away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>McFadden then shared a pretty wild story of a patient of hers who \u201cchose\u201d when to die. Viewers then chimed in with their own.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people who have lost a loved one absolutely insist that dying people are aware of, and have some level of control over, when they decide to let go. You should watch McFadden\u2019s video to hear her best story, but the comments were full of even more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy good friend Donna was dying in hospice from a brain tumor and a week before she passed things looked pretty grave so she wasn\u2019t expected to last another 2 days. Her sister was by her side and said it\u2019s okay you can go but she opened her eyes and said no I\u2019m not going yet I\u2019m waiting for my birthday, I\u2019m dying on my birthday. Her birthday was a week away and no one thought she would make it but she did. Her sister whispered in her ear \u2018today is your Birthday Sis you made it\u2019 and then she passed within the hour,\u201d one user shared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy grandmother was actively dying for two weeks and held on until the wee hours of the first of the month. She was concerned about getting her social security check to help the family,\u201d said another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAbout a week before my 93 year old mom died, she adamently said a few times to me and others she was leaving the following Tuesday. At first I thought she meant she\u2019s going out\u2026 That Tuesday comes and it was clear she was probably not going to make it to end of the week. I was aware of her comments from the week before but didn\u2019t think it would happen that day. She died at 11:12 pm that night, on the day she said she was leaving. She knew.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhile not quite the same thing as \u2018predicted,\u2019 my mother said \u2018they\u2019 told her when she was going to pass away \u2014 to the minute. \u2018They\u2019 being the people visiting her and promising to help her during her visioning experiences. She said they had shown her where she was going to go. She died at exactly the time her visioning-visitors had told her.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The stories shared by the hundreds in the comments to McFadden\u2019s video are heart-wrenching, but ultimately extremely hopeful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>McFadden doesn\u2019t want her viewers who may have a loved one who\u2019s dying to be more anxious and nervous during the night, worrying and potentially losing sleep.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cPeople are going to do it when they do it. Their body is going to let go when the body is ready to let go. All you can do is be there for your loved one the best you can.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She reiterates that, even for someone like her who has seen and helped many patients cross over from this world to the next, that death is a mystery. As much as we can continue to learn and understand new aspects of it, we\u2019ll never fully know what it\u2019s like until we experience it ourselves.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s called the \u201cletting go hour\u201d Death&nbsp;is hard to think about and harder still to talk about. 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