{"id":12529,"date":"2026-11-01T10:43:14","date_gmt":"2026-11-01T10:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=12529"},"modified":"2026-11-01T10:43:16","modified_gmt":"2026-11-01T10:43:16","slug":"professionals-swear-by-these-tricks-to-stop-your-voice-from-shaking-when-speaking-publicly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=12529","title":{"rendered":"Professionals swear by these tricks to stop your voice from shaking when speaking publicly"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI get a crying voice every time. I hate it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s nothing more frustrating than when you go to speak in a meeting and it sounds like you\u2019re about to cry. This annoying vocal trembling can affect people regardless of the size of the crowd they\u2019re speaking to, as it\u2019s related to nervousness. Several professional speakers and coaches have learned how to control that nervous vocal fry with a few tricks that may help you get through your next presentation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The seemingly unfamiliar noise our throats make when nervous can add to the feelings of anxiety. Now, you\u2019re not just worried about speaking in front of a few people<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.good.is\/how-to-beat-anxiety-ex1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/08\/origin-233.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"public speaking; shaky voice; nervous voice; social anxiety; nervous speaking; public speaking nerves\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Usually, when this happens, your pulse quickens, you start to sweat, and your face starts to feel hot. It seems your body is acting out in a pretty extreme way, and you\u2019re not sure why. So, what <em>is<\/em> the deal? Why doesn\u2019t this happen to everyone, and how can you make it stop? Well, while many are naturally good speakers, others become effective speakers because they\u2019ve learned how to master their nerves so they sound confident even when they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why does my voice shake when I speak publicly?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Extra<\/em> <em>TV<\/em> co-host Mona Kosar Abdi explains, \u201cNumber one tell-tale sign that you\u2019re nervous is a shaky voice. That happens when you\u2019re so tense that the muscles around your vocal chords tighten.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/08\/origin-234.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"public speaking; shaky voice; nervous voice; social anxiety; nervous speaking; public speaking nerves\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The technical phrase for this muscle tightening is \u201cvoice change anxiety symptoms,\u201d and, according to the Anxiety Centre, \u201cVoice changes anxiety symptoms can precede, accompany, or follow an episode of nervousness, anxiety, fear, and elevated stress, or occur \u2018out of the blue\u2019 and for no apparent reason. Voice change anxiety symptoms can range in severity from slight to moderate to severe. Voice changes can also come in waves, where it\u2019s strong one moment and eases off the next.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/08\/origin-158.gif?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"public speaking; shaky voice; nervous voice; social anxiety; nervous speaking; public speaking nerves\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to stop your voice from shaking<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As for how to get the muscles around your voice box to chill out so you can get through a simple conversation or meeting, Abdi says the trick is to relax those muscles. She shares that right before you\u2019re supposed to speak, you should hold one finger in front of your lips like you\u2019re telling someone to be quiet, take a deep breath, and, when exhaling, make a \u201cghost noise.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI know it looks crazy, but do it like five to ten minutes before you have to speak, and what it does is it helps loosen up the muscles and also helps you control your airflow,\u201d the TV host says. She adds, \u201cSlow down. When we are nervous, we tend to let out a million words a second, which leads to stumbling and being out of breath. Slow down. This allows you to enunciate your words and also get in deep breaths.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A leadership and resilience coach who goes by Cass on social media shares that one way to avoid nervousness. A shaky voice before meetings is often a sign of avoiding last-minute meeting prep. Cass suggests going outside to take deep breaths before speaking, and then combine it with hyping yourself up. This means reminding yourself that you know what you\u2019re talking about and deserve to be in the spaces you\u2019re taking up. She also points out that last-minute reviewing of material adds to the anxiety and nerves, so stepping away aids in calming your nervous system before speaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another tip for ending the shaky voice while speaking is to project your voice from your diaphragm. When nervous, you tend to take quick, shallow breaths. Slowing your breathing and using it to speak from your diaphragm will not only help make that shaky, nervous voice stop, but it will also make you sound more confident. One way to know you\u2019re using your diaphragm to speak is to take a breath with your hand on your belly. If you\u2019re breathing from your diaphragm, your belly just below your ribcage should move. As you begin speaking, you should feel the same area contract.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Several public speaking coaches mentioned this as one of the best ways to sound more confident while knocking the nerves out of your voice. Taking deep breaths, slowing down your speech, and speaking with your diaphragm have been the most repeated tips by professionals. So, if you get nervous while talking in front of others, give these tricks a try and see how they work for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI get a crying voice every time. 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