{"id":12408,"date":"2026-10-26T07:22:20","date_gmt":"2026-10-26T07:22:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=12408"},"modified":"2026-10-26T07:22:22","modified_gmt":"2026-10-26T07:22:22","slug":"92-year-old-former-ballet-dancer-with-dementia-wrote-a-poem-that-got-us-all-wrecked","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/humorsidehub.com\/?p=12408","title":{"rendered":"92-year-old former ballet dancer with dementia wrote a poem that got us all wrecked"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What a beautiful gut punch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What makes poetry poetry? There are certain technical elements that a poem might include, like rhyme and meter, but plenty of poetry doesn\u2019t follow any structural rules.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps the best definition of poetry comes from Emily Dickinson, who wrote, \u201cIf I feel physically as if the top of my head were taken off, I know that is poetry.\u201d A good poem hits you in your brain, your heart, and your gut all at once. And one short poem that packs an incredibly moving punch has come from an unlikely source\u2014an elderly woman with dementia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poet Joseph Fasano shared a message from a fan who shared that they used one of Fasano\u2019s poetry prompts with their mother, a 92-year-old former ballet dancer living with dementia. The mother was excited to write a poem, and they slowly worked through the prompt together aloud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This poem was the result:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cLet the days be warm<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Let the fall be long.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Let every child inside me find her shoes<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>and dance wildly, softly, toward the world.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I have a story I have never told<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Once, when I was small,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I looked up at the sky and saw the wind<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>and knew I was a dancer made of song.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>I am still a dancer made of song.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wow. What a testament to the power of poetry to reach beyond our usual modes of communication, which dementia so cruelly disrupts. In a few simple lines, we\u2019re able to see this woman as she might see herself, as the human living under the veils of age and disease: \u201c<em>I am still a dancer made of song.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Poetry prompts can help people express themselves in ways they otherwise couldn\u2019t<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The person who shared the poem thanked Fasano for \u201chelping people find their voices,\u201d which is exactly what his book of poetry prompts, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Magic-Words-Prompts-Creativity-Everyone\/dp\/0593716876\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Z5CYNKQMISCH&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xu3n5B6ZaKpTGj1sO6Ip08CpAOTKf2hCrJZIeWMhs6hee5PbB_l3Ghjo1FrQ3-yMIMbEii2bwMqd3uPb94QU8dsZNSfzP3JsOv7Iw1qXQZTC5d22wmKPFaugSROaJEqwT1EkszX2pmOFnjgKx4u-dB_6bSpsl2LFXUvsTxWdqwpan3ADuah5pCj003w86adtdNe7_wD93Ne3i-lJPXjzg7h2nXQPX219nCrtk4NsWzs.g7_-7NBII9v-aB4Dz93Mk4JY4T1bsxwtZzT6VaMuyFE&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=joseph+fasano&amp;qid=1727735787&amp;sprefix=joseph+fasano%2Caps%2C191&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cThe Magic Words: Simple Poetry Prompts That Unlock the Creativity in Everyone<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Magic-Words-Prompts-Creativity-Everyone\/dp\/0593716876\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Z5CYNKQMISCH&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xu3n5B6ZaKpTGj1sO6Ip08CpAOTKf2hCrJZIeWMhs6hee5PbB_l3Ghjo1FrQ3-yMIMbEii2bwMqd3uPb94QU8dsZNSfzP3JsOv7Iw1qXQZTC5d22wmKPFaugSROaJEqwT1EkszX2pmOFnjgKx4u-dB_6bSpsl2LFXUvsTxWdqwpan3ADuah5pCj003w86adtdNe7_wD93Ne3i-lJPXjzg7h2nXQPX219nCrtk4NsWzs.g7_-7NBII9v-aB4Dz93Mk4JY4T1bsxwtZzT6VaMuyFE&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=joseph+fasano&amp;qid=1727735787&amp;sprefix=joseph+fasano%2Caps%2C191&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201c<\/a> was meant to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/origin_53b1dd.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"magic words, joseph fasano, poetry prompts, poems, creativity\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Magic-Words-Prompts-Creativity-Everyone\/dp\/0593716876\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=Z5CYNKQMISCH&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.xu3n5B6ZaKpTGj1sO6Ip08CpAOTKf2hCrJZIeWMhs6hee5PbB_l3Ghjo1FrQ3-yMIMbEii2bwMqd3uPb94QU8dsZNSfzP3JsOv7Iw1qXQZTC5d22wmKPFaugSROaJEqwT1EkszX2pmOFnjgKx4u-dB_6bSpsl2LFXUvsTxWdqwpan3ADuah5pCj003w86adtdNe7_wD93Ne3i-lJPXjzg7h2nXQPX219nCrtk4NsWzs.g7_-7NBII9v-aB4Dz93Mk4JY4T1bsxwtZzT6VaMuyFE&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=joseph+fasano&amp;qid=1727735787&amp;sprefix=joseph+fasano%2Caps%2C191&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the book\u2019s introduction<\/a>, Fasano shares that he\u2019d been invited to speak to a class of second graders in New Jersey in 2022 to share \u201cthe craft and magic of poetry.\u201d As part of his efforts, he came up with a poetry prompt that could \u201chelp guide their imaginations\u201d and \u201cunlock the images, thoughts and feelings inside them, without asking them to worry about how to structure a poem.\u201d He called the results \u201castonishing.\u201d When he shared one of the students\u2019 poems on social media, it and the prompt took off like wildfire, as people who never thought of themselves as poets felt empowered to share their imaginations within that framework.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">From 7-year-olds to 92-year-olds, anyone can benefit from the self-expression that poetry facilitates, but many people feel hesitant or intimidated by the idea of writing a poem. Fasano writes, \u201cPoetry is what happens when we let ourselves be,\u201d and this idea seems so clear in the former dancer\u2019s poem above. Dementia can create roadblocks, but poetry provides a different avenue of communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/origin_c4baa0.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"dementia, alzheimer's, elder care, caregiving, arts for dementia\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The arts can be a powerful tool for people with dementia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Using poetry to help dementia patients communicate and express themselves isn\u2019t just wishful thinking. <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/25432934\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Studies have demonstrated<\/a> that cultural arts interventions, including poetry specifically, can be beneficial for people with dementia. In fact, the Alzheimer\u2019s Poetry Project (APP) aims to use poetry as a means of improving the quality of life of people living with dementia by facilitating creative expression. \u201cWe do not set boundaries in our beliefs in what possible for people with memory impairment to create,\u201d the APP website states. \u201cBy saying to people with dementia, we value you and your creativity; we are saying we value all members of our community.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poet Gary Glazner founded APP and shared a story <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wxpr.org\/arts-culture\/2022-10-24\/alzheimers-poetry-project-sparks-creativity-in-those-with-dementia\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">with WXPR radio<\/a> about how he came up with the idea while studying poetry at Sonoma State University:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI applied for a grant and got a grant to work at an adult care program. The moment I love to share with people is there was a guy in the group, head down, not participating and I said the Longfellow poem. \u2018I shot an arrow into the air\u2019 and his eyes popped open and he said, \u2018It fell to earth I know not where.\u2019 And suddenly he was with us and participating. It was just this powerful moment to see how poetry could be of use to elders but specifically with people with dementia.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.upworthy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2026\/02\/origin_d05143.jpg?w=1200&amp;quality=80\" alt=\"dementia, alzheimer's, elder care, caregiving, arts for dementia\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another initiative, Arts 4 Dementia, does poetry workshops with people in early stages of dementia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c\u2018Poetry allows freedom of expression and can add warmth and depth to what may start as prose,\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.alzheimers.org.uk\/blog\/arts-therapy-people-dementia-poetry-creativity\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Arts 4 Dementia CEO Nigel Franklin told the Alzheimer\u2019s Society.<\/a> \u201cThrough poetry, participants access certain images or memories from their lives, and build these fragments together. Older people living with dementia often learnt poems off by heart as a child, and many of these poems are still accessible. Our participants have early-stage dementia, so while short-term memory may be diminished, many skills can be retained. They are welcome to read poetry (at their own pace) or ask their companion to read and perhaps write what they have created. We give participants time to answer\u2014we don\u2019t answer for them\u2014and above all, we show respect and we\u2019re never patronising.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whether we read it, write it, speak it, or hear it, poetry has the power to reach people of all ages and stages of life in all kinds of mysterious ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What a beautiful gut punch. What makes poetry poetry? 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