Experts explain how this \u201cmagic\u201d trick really works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Few forces are more powerful than a full-blown toddler tantrum. In those moments, when parents cycle through snacks, bribes, gentle-parenting scripts, and increasingly unhinged negotiations, all to no avail, it\u2019s understandable they\u2019d try almost anything. Including, apparently, summoning a mysterious woman named Jessica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Having fallen out of popularity since its heyday in the \u201980s, \u201cJessica\u201d has found new life, not in classrooms, but in viral parenting videos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Across TikTok, desperate moms and dads are shouting the name mid-meltdown and watching in stunned silence as their toddlers abruptly stop crying and look around for this offscreen character.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For Tiffani Ortega, a Florida mom, the tactic came out of sheer exhaustion. Her toddler, Luca, was in the middle of a familiar post-park meltdown while being buckled into his car seat, which he apparently \u201cdid not like,\u201d she told Today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In a viral clip, her husband can be heard saying, \u201cCome here, Jessica. He\u2019s crying. Are you going to stop crying? Because Jessica is coming. You want Jessica to come?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The result was immediate: Luca was miraculously silent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Meanwhile, in California, Evanthia Davis had a nearly identical experience with the viral hack. Hearing her daughter Delilah crying inside, she called out, \u201cJessica!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Delilah stopped mid-cry and began looking around for Jessica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWow, this worked so well. This will be my new go-to when my baby \/ toddler cries,\u201d Davis wrote in the caption.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yet another mom shared that she\u2019s tried the trick three times. Each time, her daughter \u201cmagically stops crying and starts looking for the Jessica that does not exist.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\nNaturally, the Internet had thoughts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cJessica, the new HR director of toddlers,\u201d joked one person, while another added, \u201cJessica must run a strict program because these kids are shook.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why the Jessica parenting trick works<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
As funny as it looks, there\u2019s actually some science behind why it works. As Dr. Deborah Gilboa told Today, toddlers have an impressive amount of \u201cperseverance\u201d and \u201cobject permanence,\u201d meaning they remain upset long after the inciting incident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, as child psychiatrist Dr. Willough Jenkins explained in a TikTok video, saying something unexpected, like \u201cWhere is Jessica?\u201d, creates a \u201cpattern interrupt.\u201d That surprise pulls the upset kiddo out of the emotional loop, giving parents enough time to redirect their focus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Experts say distraction techniques like this can be helpful in the moment, especially when emotions are running high. Redirecting attention, introducing something novel, or even changing the environment can help de-escalate a tantrum long enough for a calmer interaction to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Of course, like all good magic tricks, it probably won\u2019t work forever. Once your toddler catches on that Jessica never actually arrives, her power may fade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Until then, she remains a surprisingly effective, slightly chaotic ally for parents everywhere. And hey, in the middle of a grocery store meltdown, we\u2019ll take what we can get.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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